Do Girls Really Give a Shit About Muscles
Do you already have impressive muscles? Are you working out to get more muscular? Are you wondering now if it really is going to be worth it? Read this as I reveal what women REALLY think about guys with muscles.
This is the simplified version of the psychology of attraction in both men and women. Men are visual. They are attracted to outward beauty first, and inward beauty second. Women are emotional, which means they respond more to inward beauty than outward beauty. It’s true, though, that women will usually first notice a guy for his looks, but that image will be quickly changed in her mind when she finds out what he looks like on the inside.
For example, Fabian walks into a bar. He’s about as muscular and ruggedly handsome as they come, and Jaimie notices him right away. He begins talking to her, and is loud, rude, and only talks about himself, his muscles, and sports. She still would agree that he’s physically attractive, but is no longer attracted to him because she doesn’t like the way he treated her. She quickly turns down his offer to go back to his place so she can see ALL of his muscles, and he moves onto the next girl.
Next, Joshua walks into the bar. He’s a bit pudgy and wears glasses, but he’s confident enough to go up and talk to Jaimie. He asks her about what she’s interested in, and offers to buy her a drink. When she asks him about his family, he opens up and talks honestly about his life. She still doesn’t think that he’s incredibly physically attractive, but she is now attracted to him because she saw that he is open and honest on the inside, and had an interest in her. She eagerly gives him her number and hopes he calls her soon.
For women, it’s 75% on the inside, and only 25% what’s on the outside. So, the answer to the question is simple. Yes, women do love a guy with muscles, if he’s as beautiful on the inside. Knowing how to treat a woman is more important than looking good and having muscles.
My previous examples were mainly focusing on the kind of girl that you would want to take home to mother. If you’re looking for a girl to take home with you that night, then muscles would be the way to go. It’s the girls that are only attracted to you for your looks that are more likely to go with you to have a one-night stand, or to have a more sexually-based relationship.
So, if you’re looking for something more shallow and based on outside looks, girls do love a guy with muscles. But if you want something more serious and lasting, it’s not going to matter as much. Physical attraction is important, but not as much as the emotional connection that girls really love to have. It mostly boils down to what kind of girl and relationship you’re looking for, and what your personality type is.